KwakunguNovemba 2010, wonke umphakathi waseToronto eCanada wasala ushaqekile ngu- isigameko esibuhlungu. Abashadikazi baseVietnam bahlaselwe bengaphakathi kwendlu yabo, kulokho okubonakala kuwukuphangwa komuzi wabo. Ngokudabukisayo, inkosikazi yalahlekelwa ukuphila kwayo, kanti umyeni wayo wasala esesimweni esibucayi ngenxa yokuqhuma kwesibhamu ebusweni bakhe.
Intsha yaseCanada edabuka eVietnam eyazalwa ngo-1986, uJennifer Pan, yayiqashe abantu ababili abashayayo ukuba babulale abaphathi bayo lapho bethola ukuthi yayikhohlisile impilo yayo kusukela isesikoleni esiphakeme.
UJennifer Pan - ingane 'yegolide'
Ngezikhathi ezithile abezindaba bayabeletha imicimbi efanele yokuba umbhalo wefilimu olandelayo. Yilokho okwenzeka kuJennifer Pan, owesifazane osemusha owagqama ngamamaki akhe amahle esikoleni kusukela esemncane. Kusukela eneminyaka emine ubudala, wayedlala upiyano, umtshingo futhi ezilolongela i- figure skating.
Abazali baka-Jennifer u-Huei Hann Pan no-Bich Ha Pan bafuna ukuphelela futhi balawula ukuphila kwakhe okuphelele. Awekho amaphathi, imidanso yasesikoleni esiphakeme, nokuncane ukuphuma nabafana. Emehlweni abo, indodakazi yabo yayingumfundi we-A, kodwa empeleni, uPan wayefake wonke amakhadi akhe okubika esikoleni esiphakeme futhi wayesebudlelwaneni obunothando nomlingani wakhe uDaniel Wong ahlangana naye eneminyaka engu-16.
Kusukela uJennifer abazali ngeke babuvume ubuhlobo, wanquma ukukugcina kuyimfihlo, enezela kulokhu ukuthi isoka lakhe lalingumthengisi wezidakamizwa omncane, okwathatha amaphuzu engeziwe kulesi simo.
Konke kwaqala kusukela ngosuku olulodwa ebuntwaneni bukaJennifer
Ngelinye ilanga esikoleni abefunda kuso bebeklomelisa abafundi abenze kahle, njengoba minyaka yonke ubelindele ukuthi basho igama lakhe, nabazali bakhe babekhona kwazise bebenesiqiniseko sokuthi uzowina. Akunjalo, abazange basho igama likaJennifer kodwa lomunye umfana esikoleni; ngenxa yosizi, abazali bakhe bahoxile emcimbini, kubo lesi simo sibe yihlazo.
Ngemva kokulahlekelwa, ezizwa eyisehluleki, intshiseko yakhe ngesikole yaqala ukuncipha, wayenganaki amakilasi, futhi amamaki akhe aqala ukwehla. Ngokwazi ukuthi wayengeke akwazi ukudumaza abazali bakhe ngokwengeziwe, u-Jennifer waqala ukukhohlisa izikolo zakhe zokuhlolwa iminyaka engu-4.
Iwebhu yamanga yaqhubeka empilweni kaJennifer
Iwebhu yamanga ngempilo kaJennifer yaqhubeka ekolishi. Ehluleka ukuthola iziqu ekolishi ayefunda kulo, waqamba amanga ngokungena ekolishi, ngakho-ke waqamba amanga wathi wayeya esikoleni, enze amaphrojekthi noma avolontiye, yize, empeleni wayekuchitha endlini yesoka lakhe.
Lowo othole indondo yama-Olimpiki wesikhathi esizayo manje kufanele abe ngusaziwayo waseKhemisi. Wakha incwadi yokwamukelwa evela eRyerson University futhi wazenza umfundi okhaliphile owanikezwa umfundaze ngamamaki akhe amahle awenzela abazali bakhe. Indima yempilo yakhe yayingenamifantu. Kepha lokhu bekungeke kuhlale isikhathi eside.
Abazali baka-Jennifer bathola ukutholakala okushaqisayo ngendodakazi yabo 'esagolide'
UJennifer wenza imali ngokufundisa upiyano nokusebenza endaweni yokudlela, kuze kube yilapho abazali bakhe sebesola ngezifundo zendodakazi yabo futhi ngolunye usuku banquma ukuyomshiya endaweni lapho kwakuthiwa uyavolontiya khona.
UJennifer, ethukile, wazama ukubavimba ukuba bangene esibhedlela lapho kwakusolakala ukuthi wayesebenza khona. Ngisho ngenxa yobuwula babazali bakhe, uyacasuka bese ethatha isinqumo sokuya esibhedlela. Banquma ukungena futhi bamangala ukuthi abanye abahlengikazi balungisa zonke izinsolo ngokubatshela ukuthi akekho umuntu ogama lakhe linguJennifer Pan osebenza lapho.
Kungaleso sikhathi lapho abazali bakhe bethola wonke amanga uJennifer ayewalukile kusukela ekuqaleni. Ngakho-ke, bathatha isinqumo sokuphoqelela ukulawula indodakazi yabo eseyikhulile manje: imphoqe ukuba ashiye umsebenzi, afake idivayisi ye-GPS emotweni yakhe futhi aqaphe bonke abangane bakhe. Futhi kusobala, bamnqabela ukuthi aqhubeke nesoka lakhe uDaniel uma efuna ukuhlala ekhaya; avume, kodwa aqhubeke akhulume naye ngasese.
UJennifer kwadingeka aqede okuwukuphela kwento eyayibahlukanisa
UDaniel, oneminyaka engu-24, ukhathele ukugcina ubudlelwano bakhe buyimfihlo futhi, wathola omunye umlingani futhi washiya uJennifer, lo, enesifiso, waphinde wabuyela emangeni akhe, ukuze aqhathe uDaniel ukuze angamshiyi.
"Ubengumuntu ovale isikhala esingenalutho… ngakho [lapho sihlukana] ngazizwa sengathi kukhona ingxenye yami elahlekile." - UJennifer Pan
Uthando lwabo lwalulukhulu kangangokuthi owayeyisoka likaJennifer lamtshela ukuthi uma efuna ukubuyelana naye, kwakufanele aqede okuwukuphela kwento eyayibahlukanisa: abazali bakhe!
Ukuziphindiselela kukaJennifer Pan - icebo eliphelele
Ngentwasahlobo ka-2010, uJennifer noDaniel baqhamuka necebo lokuthi babe nenkululeko yokuba ndawonye, kwakuqukethe ukubulala abazali bakaPan futhi kamuva baqoqe umshuwalense wokuphila ngamakhulu amahlanu ezinkulungwane zamadola.
Ngenxa yokuthi uDaniel wayesezweni lezigebengu, wathintana nomuntu amaziyo futhi bamkhokhela ama-dollar ayizinkulungwane ezingu-10, lo mculi wayephelezelwa abanye ababili ababebambe iqhaza ukuze alingise ukugetshengwa endaweni yokuhlala yasePan e-Unionville, eMarkham, e-Ontario, e-Greater Toronto. Indawo.
Konke lokhu kwenziwa ngoNovemba 2010. Bangena endlini, babopha umndeni wonke, bamboza abazali ngengubo yokulala babayisa egumbini elingaphansi base bebadubula ngokungenasihawu.
Shayela ku-9-1-1
UJennifer wabe eseshayela u-911 watshela u-opharetha ukuthi uboshelwe phezulu, wezwa kuqhuma isibhamu. Ingxoxo yakhe nomqhubi we-911:
Opharetha: Ungubani igama lakho?
UJennifer: Igama lami nginguJennifer.
Opharetha: Ukhona owagqekeza?
UJennifer: Othile wagqekeza futhi ngezwa isibhamu esifana ne-pop. Angazi kwenzakalani. Ngiboshelwe phezulu.
Opharetha: Ingabe kuzwakale sengathi izibhamu?
UJennifer: Angazi ukuthi izibhamu zizwakala kanjani. Ngisanda kuzwa ipop.
(UHann Pan uyamemeza)
UJennifer: Ngiyaphila! Ubaba uvele waphuma phandle ememeza.
Opharetha: Ucabanga ukuthi nomama wakho uphansi?
UJennifer: Angisamuzwa.
UJennifer: Ngicela Usheshe. Angazi kwenzakalani.
I-Operator: Mama, Ma'am, Ma'am
UJennifer: Angazi ukuthi abazali bami bakuphi.
Ngokusho kukaJennifer, uHann Pan ngandlela thize wasinda futhi wezwakala ememeza kude ocingweni lwe-9-1-1. Ngemva kokufika kosizo, u-Hann waphuthunyiswa esibhedlela, lapho alaliswa khona equlekile kodwa u-Bich Ha Pan akazange abe nenhlanhla kangako. wafela egumbini elingaphansi. U-Bich udutshulwe kaningi emhlane kwathi ekugcineni washona ngemuva ekhanda. Lapho amaphoyisa efika athola uJennifer eboshwe ncamashi ngendlela ayechaze ngayo ocingweni.
Emhlabeni wonke, uJennifer wayeyindodakazi elusizi - owasinda esikhungweni sezempilo. ukuhlasela kwekhaya okunyantisayo lokho kwashiya umama wakhe oneminyaka engu-53 ubudala u-Bich Ha Pan edutshulwa washona kanye nobaba wakhe oneminyaka engu-60 ubudala, u-Hann Pan ekwi-coma elwela impilo yakhe, kodwa 'indaba' kaJennifer yaphikisa.
Kungani indaba kaJennifer yaba nemiphumela engemihle?
UJennifer uthe wayeboshelwe esitezi sesibili ku-banister. Amaphoyisa asebenza endaweni yesigameko akuthola kunzima ukukholelwa ukuthi ukwazile ukubabiza noma esaboshiwe.
Iqiniso lokuthi ababulali bashiye uJennifer engenamyocu nalo lavusa amashiya amaningi, kungani umuntu eshiya owazibonela ngawakhe? Amaphoyisa akuthola kunzima ukukholwa ngesikhathi uJennifer ekhuluma ocingweni ukuthi uyise waphuma endlini, ehayiza, ngokusho kwamaphoyisa, ubaba ubeyobheka ingane yakhe ezimeni ezifana nalezi.
Amaphoyisa awazange akholiswe yindaba yakhe futhi aqala ukumqapha. Ngisho nasemngcwabeni kanina, uJennifer akazange ngisho izinyembezi, futhi ukukhala akuzange kubonakale kungokweqiniso nangayiphi indlela.
Ekugcineni, iqiniso lavela
Ngemuva kokuphenya uJennifer kathathu, amaphoyisa abona ukuthi asikho isitatimende esivumayo, kukhona okuhlale kushintsha okuthile endabeni. Ekugcineni, abaphenyi bakwazi ukuthola lonke iqiniso kuJennifer.
Kwakusekuqaleni kuka-2015 lapho uJennifer Pan oneminyaka engu-28 ubudala, kanye nesoka lakhe uDaniel Wong kanye nabahlanganyeli balokhu kugetshengwa okungamanga, bagwetshwa udilikajele ngecala lokuqala lokubulala nokuzama ukubulala, ngaphandle kokuthola ushwele iminyaka engu-25. .
UJennifer Pan manje
UJennifer Pan manje uneminyaka engama-37 kanti kuzoba ngama-59 lapho bezobuyekeza icala lakhe bese behlola ukukhishwa kwakhe okwesikhashana. Kusukela ngo-2018, uJennifer Pan ubedonsa isigwebo sakhe eGrand Valley Institution for Women in Kitchener, Ontario. Uvinjelwe futhi ukuxhumana noDaniel Wong.
Ubaba kaJennifer wathi, “Lapho ngishonelwa umkami, ngashonelwa indodakazi yami ngesikhathi esifanayo. Ngithemba ukuthi indodakazi yami uJennifer izocabanga ngalokho okwenzeka emndenini wayo futhi ngelinye ilanga ingaba umuntu olungile nothembekile.”
Lapho uJennifer Pan kanye nezinye iziboshwa, kuhlanganise noDaniel Wong, sebeqedile Iminyaka engama-25 ejele, okungukuthi, ngo-2039, bobahlanu bangacela inzuzo yenqubo ye-parole. Uma lesi sinyathelo sokuzivikela sivuma, uJennifer angabuyela emigwaqweni, kodwa uyohlale ebhekwe futhi eqashwe iziphathimandla, njengoba nje abazali bakhe benza kukho konke ukuphila kwakhe.
Ababulali bePan Family - UJennifer Pan Interrogation
Ngemva kokufunda ngodaba olushaqisayo lukaJennifer Pan, funda ngalo UTerry Jo Duperrault - intombazane eyasinda emndenini wayo wonke ibulawa ngesihluku olwandle.
