KwakungoNovemba 2010, lonke uluntu lwaseToronto eCanada lwashiywa lumothukile ngu isiganeko esibi. Isibini saseVietnam sahlaselwa ngaphakathi kwindlu yaso, kwinto ebonakala ngathi kukuphangwa kwendlu yaso. Okubuhlungu kukuba, umfazi waphulukana nobomi bakhe, ngoxa umyeni wakhe wasala ekwimeko emaxongo ngenxa yokudutyulwa kompu ebusweni bakhe.
Intombazana encinci yaseCanada yaseVietnam eyazalwa ngo-1986, uJennifer Pan, yayiqeshe amadoda amabini ukuba abulale abazali bayo xa befumanisa ukuba wenze ubomi bakhe ukusukela kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo.
UJennifer Pan - umntwana 'wegolide'
Amaxesha ngamaxesha amajelo eendaba ayabeleka iziganeko ezifanelekileyo yokuba siskripthi semuvi elandelayo. Le yimeko kaJennifer Pan, ibhinqa eliselula elaphumelela emagqabini esikolweni liselula. Ukususela kwiminyaka emine ubudala, wayedlala ipiyano, ifluthe kwaye waziqhelanisa nokutyibiliza kwimizobo.
Abazali bakaJennifer u-Huei Hann Pan kunye no-Bich Ha Pan bafuna imfezeko kwaye basebenzise ulawulo olupheleleyo lobomi bakhe. Akukho matheko, imidaniso yesikolo samabanga aphakamileyo, kwaye ngaphantsi kokuhamba namakhwenkwe. Emehlweni abo, intombi yabo yayingumfundi we-A, kodwa eneneni, uPan wayefake onke amakhadi akhe engxelo kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo kwaye wayenobudlelwane obunothando kunye neqabane lakhe uDaniel Wong awadibana naye eneminyaka eyi-16.
Ukususela kuJennifer abazali abanakuze baluvume olo lwalamano, wagqiba ekubeni akugcine kuyimfihlelo, wongezelela koku ukuba umfana wakhe wayengumthengisi weziyobisi omncinane, owathabatha amanqaku angakumbi kwimeko.
Yonke le nto yaqala ukusuka ngenye imini ebuntwaneni bukaJennifer
Ngenye imini esikolweni ebefunda kuso bebewonga abona bafundi baphume izandla, nanjengoko minyaka le ebelindele ukuba babize igama lakhe, nabazali bakhe babekhona kuba bebeqinisekile ukuba uzophumelela. Oku kwakungenjalo, abazange balikhankanye igama likaJennifer kodwa lelinye inkwenkwe yesikolo; ngenxa yentlungu, abazali bakhe barhoxa kulo msitho, kubo le meko yaba lihlazo.
Emva kokuba ephulukene, eziva ngathi akaphumelelanga, umdla wakhe ngesikolo waqalisa ukuncipha, wayenganikeli ngqalelo kwiiklasi, yaye amanqaku akhe aqalisa ukuhla. Esazi ukuba akanakukwazi ukubaphoxa ngakumbi abazali bakhe, uJennifer waqala ukukhohlisa amanqaku akhe ovavanyo iminyaka emi-4.
Iwebhu yobuxoki yaqhubeka ebomini bukaJennifer
Iwebhu yobuxoki malunga nobomi bukaJennifer iyaqhubeka kwikholeji. Ukusilela ukuphumelela kwikholeji awayekuyo, waxoka ngokwamkelwa ekholejini, ke ngoko waxoka esithi wayeya esikolweni, esenza iiprojekthi okanye wazivolontiya, nangona, enyanisweni wayeyichithela endlwini yesoka lakhe.
Imbasa ye-Olimpiki yexesha elizayo ngoku kufuneka ibe yimbalasane evela kwiFarmacy. Wayila ileta yokwamkelwa evela kwiYunivesithi yaseRyerson kwaye wazenza ngathi ungumfundi okrelekrele owanikwa isibonelelo sokufumana amabanga amahle kubazali bakhe. Indima yobomi bakhe kwakungekho neentanda. Kodwa ayizukuhlala ixesha elide.
Abazali bakaJennifer bafumanisa into eyothusayo malunga nentombi yabo 'yegolide'
UJennifer wenza imali ngokufundisa ipiyano nokusebenza kwindawo yokutyela, bade abazali bakhe bakrokre malunga nezifundo zeentombi zabo kwaye ngenye imini bagqiba kwelokuba bamshiye kwindawo awayecinga ukuba uyavolontiya kuyo.
UJennifer, enovalo, wazama ukubathintela ukuba bangene esibhedlele apho wayesebenza khona. Nangenxa yobuyatha babazali bakhe, uyacaphuka kwaye athathe isigqibo sokuhamba esiya esibhedlele. Bathatha isigqibo sokungena kwaye bamangaliswa kukuba abanye abongikazi belungisa zonke izityholo ngokubaxelela ukuba akukho mntu ugama linguJennifer Pan osebenza apho.
Kulapho ke abazali bakhe bafumanisa khona bonke ubuxoki obabuphothiwe nguJennifer kwasekuqaleni. Ke ngoko, bathatha isigqibo sokunyanzelisa ulawulo oluqatha kwintombi yabo esele ikhulile ngoku: bamnyanzele ukuba ashiye umsebenzi, ubeke isixhobo seGPS emotweni yakhe kwaye abeke iliso kubo bonke abahlobo bakhe. Kwaye ngokucacileyo, bamnqanda ukuba aqhubeke nesoka lakhe uDaniel ukuba ufuna ukuhlala ekhaya; wavuma, kodwa wathetha emfihlekweni naye.
UJennifer kwafuneka aphelise ekuphela kwento eyayibahlukanisa
UDaniel, oneminyaka engama-24 ubudala, ediniwe kukugcina ubudlelwane bakhe buyimfihlo kwakhona, wafumana elinye iqabane kwaye wamshiya uJennifer, lo, enomdla, waphinda wabuyela kubuxoki bakhe, ukuze asebenzise uDaniel ukuze angamshiyi.
“Ibinguye umntu ovale into engenanto… ngoko [xa sahlukana] ndaziva ngathi kukho into engekho kum.” -UJennifer Pan
Uthando lwabo lwalulukhulu kangangokuba owayesakuba ngumfana kaJennifer wamxelela ukuba ukuba ufuna ukubuyelana naye, wayemele aphelise ekuphela kwento eyayibahlukanisa: abazali bakhe!
impindezelo kaJennifer Pan – isicwangciso esigqibeleleyo
Ngentwasahlobo ka-2010, uJennifer noDaniel beza necebo lokuba nenkululeko yokuba kunye, yayiquka ukubulala abazali bakaPan kwaye kamva kuqokelela i-inshurensi yobomi ngamakhulu amahlanu amawaka eedola.
Ngenxa yokuba uDaniel wayekwilizwe lezigebenga, wanxibelelana nomntu amaziyo kwaye bamhlawula i-10 lamawaka eedola, ukubetha wayekhatshwa ngabanye abathathi-nxaxheba ababini ukuxelisa ukhuthuzo kwindawo yokuhlala yasePan e-Unionville, eMarkham, eOntario, eGreater Toronto. Indawo.
Konke oku kwenziwa ngoNovemba ka-2010. Bangena endlwini, babopha lonke usapho, bagquma abazali ngengubo kwaye babasa kwigumbi elingaphantsi emva koko babadubula ngokungenanceba.
Biza ku-9-1-1
UJennifer emva koko wabiza u-911 wamxelela opharetha ukuba ubotshelelwe kwigumbi eliphezulu, kwaye weva izithonga zemipu. Incoko yakhe nomqhubi we-911:
Operator: Ungubani igama lakho?
UJennifer: Igama lam ndinguJennifer.
Operator: Kukho umntu oqhekezayo?
UJennifer: Kukho umntu oqhekezayo kwaye ndeva izithonga ezinje ngepop. Andazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni. Ndibotshelelwe phezulu.
Operator: Ngaba kwavakala izithonga zompu?
UJennifer: Andazi ukuba kuvakala njani izithonga zompu. Ndive nje ipop.
(UHann Pan ukhwaza)
UJennifer: Ndiyaphila! Utata uvele waphuma phandle ekhala.
Operator: Ucinga ukuba nomama wakho uphantsi?
UJennifer: Andisayimva.
UJennifer: Ndicela ukhawuleze. Andazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni.
Umsebenzisi: Mam, Mam, Mam
UJennifer: Andazi ukuba baphi abazali bam.
NgokukaJennifer, uHann Pan ngandlela thile wasinda kwaye weva ekhwaza ekude kumnxeba we-9-1-1. Emva kokuba uncedo lufikile, uHann wasiwa esibhedlele, apho wafakwa kwisiqaqa kodwa u-Bich Ha Pan wayengenalo ithamsanqa kangako. wafela kwigumbi elingaphantsi. U-Bich wadutyulwa izihlandlo ezininzi ngasemva kwaye ekugqibeleni wadutyulwa emva kwentloko. Akufika amapolisa afika uJennifer ebotshwe kanye ngale ndlela wayechaza ngayo xa wayefowunelwa.
Kwihlabathi liphela, uJennifer wayeyintombi esentlungwini - ixhoba uhlaselo olubi lwekhaya oko kwashiya umama wakhe oneminyaka engama-53 ubudala u-Bich Ha Pan wadutyulwa wafa kunye noyise oneminyaka engama-60 ubudala, uHann Pan ekwikoma esilwela ubomi bakhe, kodwa 'ibali' likaJennifer labuyela umva.
Kwakutheni ukuze ibali likaJennifer libuyele umva?
UJennifer wathi wayeboshwe kumgangatho wesibini kwi-banister. Amagosa asebenza kuloo ndawo akufumanisa kunzima ukukholelwa ukuba ukwazile ukubabiza nasemva kokuba ebotshiwe.
Into yokuba ababulali bashiye uJennifer engenzakalanga inyuse amashiya amaninzi, kutheni umntu eshiya ingqina ngasemva? La magosa akufumanisa kunzima ukukholelwa xa uJennifer efowunela ukuba uyise waphuma endlwini, ekhwaza, ngokutsho kwamagosa, utata wayeya kuhlola umntwana wakhe kwiimeko ezinje.
Amapolisa awazange akholelwe kwibali lakhe kwaye aqala ukumjonga. Nakumngcwabo kamama wakhe, uJennifer khange akhuphe nenyembezi. nokukhala akuzange kubonakale okwenyani nangayiphi na indlela.
Ekugqibeleni, inyaniso yavela
Emva kokubuza uJennifer kathathu, amagosa asebupoliseni aqonda ukuba akukho ngxelo ivumayo, kukho into esoloko itshintsha ibali. Ekugqibeleni, abaphenyi bakwazi ukufumana yonke inyaniso kuJennifer.
Kwakusekuqaleni kuka-2015 apho uJennifer Pan oneminyaka engama-28 ubudala, kunye nesithandwa sakhe uDaniel Wong kunye nabalingane bobu buqhetseba, bagwetywa ubomi entolongweni ngokubulala inqanaba lokuqala kunye nokuzama ukubulala, kungekho nto inokwenzeka yengqawule iminyaka engama-25. .
UJennifer Pan ngoku
UJennifer Pan ngoku uneminyaka engama-37 ubudala kwaye uyakuba neminyaka engama-59 xa bephonononga ityala lakhe kwaye bavavanya ukukhululwa kwakhe okwethutyana. Ukusukela ngo-2018, uJennifer Pan wayesebenza isigwebo sakhe kwiziko iGrand Valley for Women in Kitchener, Ontario. Ukwalelwe ukunxibelelana noDaniel Wong.
Utata kaJennifer wathi, “Xa ndafelwa ngumfazi, ndafelwa yintombi yam kwangelo xesha. Ndiyathemba ukuba intombi yam uJennifer iya kucinga ngoko kwenzeka kwintsapho yakowayo ize ibe ngumntu olungileyo nonyanisekileyo ngenye imini.”
Xa uJennifer Pan kunye namanye amabanjwa, kuquka uDaniel Wong, begqibile Iminyaka engama-25 ejele, oko kukuthi, ngo-2039, bonke abahlanu banokucela inzuzo yenkqubo yengqawule. Ukuba eli nyathelo lokhuseleko liyamkeleka, uJennifer unokubuyela ezitratweni, kodwa uya kuhlala ejongwe kwaye ebekwe iliso ngabasemagunyeni, njengoko abazali bakhe benjenjalo kubo bonke ubomi bakhe.
Ababulali bePan Family-UJan Pan Pan Intlanganiso
Emva kokufunda ngetyala elothusayo likaJennifer Pan, funda ngalo UTerry Jo Duperrault - intombazana eyasinda usapho lwayo lonke ibulawa ngenkohlakalo elwandle.
